Paradox and Inspiration 156: Forgiving and Forgetting, Which Comes First?

Critics of "Forgive and Forget" believe that forgiving doesn't mean forgetting - one can forgive without forgetting. As much as it sounds logical, I find that when I have forgiven, it is actually when I find it hard to remember how I have been wronged. Could "forget and forgive" hold more truth then? How much can you really forgive if you can't forget anything?